Hi, I’m Mara Adelman.

I am a certified sexuality coach who loves to talk to people about dating, relationships and sex. I love helping people find and keep love. I am so blessed to have found my true calling in coaching and hope I can help you find and keep the love you deserve.

My journey to become a coach and to help improve relationships for others comes from both personal and professional experience.

We all know that the road to success can be paved with challenges. My own experiences of dating and relationships makes me an expert. I have spent the better part of 3 decades learning the do’s and don’ts of dating and relationships. From an engagement with step-children to short, mid-range and long-term relationships. At many points in life I have done online dating. I have gone on many many first dates looking for that right connection and because of this I have streamlined my dating process. I can’t wait to share the Mara Dating Method with you.

I have done the work on the Essential 5 Elements that I teach in my coaching and I am ready to help you along your journey.

My desire to fully understand this magical thing we call love has led to many hours of study and research. I have always gravitated to trying to fully understand the complexities that exist in the areas of dating, relationships, and sex. It became clear to me that the number one focus needs to be on self love and discovery so that people can come from their most true and authentic selves. This would make finding the ideal person much less challenging. Ultimately I was compelled to enroll in a Clinical Sexuality Program so that I can help others with my knowledge.

For over 20 years I have worked as a Physician Assistant at a large family practice clinic in the beautiful Napa Valley. I still get great satisfaction out of what I do. However, I have found that in today’s chaotic and disconnected world that I am having a harder time helping my patients affect the kind of change needed to be healthy and well. Over the years, I have been blessed to be trusted and privy to my patients most intimate life moments. So many of my patients have confided in me that they are struggling with dating, relationship and sexuality issues that they feel are directly affecting their health. It became apparent to me that unless I also help people focus in on and improve these areas in their lives that I would just be treating the symptoms of illness and not truly helping people be balanced and well.

As a Sexuality Coach and a Physician Assistant, I merge my medical knowledge with my passion to coach clients to improve their overall health. I look forward to helping you find and keep love.

When I discuss dating and relationships with friends, family, patients, clients and colleagues I hear the same repeating theme. “It shouldn’t be this hard!” Whether that is people who are single and struggling to find high quality people to date or people in short, medium or long term relationships. The resounding feeling and sentiment is one of sadness that it is all so difficult. I have experienced and felt much of what others are sharing with me and I understand. This is a large part of what led me to launch my coaching business. My hope is that with coaching, people will find it all a bit less hard.

Coaching my clients to have better Self Love, Communication, Intimacy, Sex and Self Preservation in their relationships is rewarding and powerful work. If you want to improve your confidence in any of these areas I would love to speak with you. I look forward to helping you find and keep love.

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